BAD LUCK COMES IN 3's
How do we know when a bad day Is about to happen? Listening to songs and the pessimist mindset, it's when the things are going so great that nothing good could possibly happen again. But, when is it going so great either? When we are in life day to day, there is annoyances and issues that make us all feel like the good never really happens and the bad is the norm. Then there is that saying,” terrible things come in 3's”. Like " hey this isn't bad enough, lets me it worse one more time, eh maybe one more after that". And I can say personally, that those days are much more obvious than the normal "bad" days. Because it's those moments when you realize that things weren’t horrible. They may not have been great but they were at least ok.
Today was one of those days for me. It's Friday and I was looking forward to being able to relax this weekend. But from the second I went into work today, it felt like something was wrong with everything. Issues coming from every corner, and then trying to stay positive, I did not expect to deal with other personal issues as well, and these are biggies, with potential court cases in my future and a not so dream wedding (but at least to the man of my dreams).... So where is my third? Well, I'm not sure, but if things keep going as they have been for the past 12 hours, I really don't want to know what will happen next. To get away from it all…I'm hiding in my private happy world. My room, staying away from people and putting the phone away so I can find out tomorrow. You know, like you say to yourself in all of those horror movies, if only they would just sit still and not go venture out into the world to find out what that noise was. That's what I'm actually doing, sitting still and making sure to avoid the third scary monster that is about to invade my life.
Then again, maybe it already happened and I'm hiding for no reason. Thing is, I can't say I mind hiding at this point though. Think it's time to grab a book, get lost in another world and pretend like tomorrow is going to be the best day ever! Maybe it will all work out in the end...with the end being Saturday!!
Lessons learned today:
1. Laugh at the things you can't change
2. Laugh harder if it makes you want to cry
3. Hiding places are a great way to recoup.
4. Some people only care about themselves truly, don't ever expect them to change
Deep stuff...Talk soon!